Inner Child Work

December 11, 2023

Inner child work confronts unconscious disruptive patterns through intentional awareness. Neglecting to address past painful experiences compels us to inadvertently recreate present circumstances that mirror unresolved emotions from those incidents.

As we heal repressed emotional pain, we unlock wisdom and power. Directing loving attention inward, evokes reconnection with lost aspects of ourselves and makes peace with our history so we can truly embrace the present.

Granting ourselves the love and understanding absent in our childhood enables a role reversal, where we become the nurturing parents we lacked. We show up for ourselves, equiped with the toolbelt we have curated through our life experience. Now we can operate with our mature intelligence to revisit memories of trauma, fear and love-deprivation, and fill these dark inner spaces with compassion, and self-belief.

Embark on the path of reparenting your inner child by exploring these affirmations. Identify the ones that resonate on a deep, primal level within you…

“I love you”

You are lovable, regardless of achievements.

“I hear you”

Acknowledge suppressed feelings and give a voice to your pain.

“You didn't deserve this”

Recognize your innocence, release undeserved guilt.

“I'm sorry”

Apologize for self-criticism, you were learning.

“I forgive you”

Let go of shame and regret, you are not that small person anymore.

“Thank you”

Express gratitude to the little you, for their strength and perseverance.

“You did your best”

Release perfectionism, you did all you could with what you had available at the time.

What does your inner child need to hear today?

You will not move on from them, but I will help you move forward with them.

The depth of our grief is simply the price we pay for the extent of our love.
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